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Our family friend is married, helpful and also a Christian, however she is  closer to my husband than me.   She sends lunch occationally to my him or would invite ...

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My husband confessed he cheated, should ...

I’ve been married for a number of  years and suspects my husband  was cheating. I love him very much and he knows that but I don’t trust him and he always ...

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DEAR BELLA: Young woman wants to know wh...

Dear Bella, I’m writing on behalf of my curiosity, not so much to seek advice but to peek the interest and get feedback/ views from your many readers. I am ...

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Boyfriend cheated on me and I am no long...

I am a 27 years old lady. My boyfriend is a year younger than me. We have been together for 4 years..we did everything together..we were very happy together until he ...

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In love with an older guy

Dear Bella: I am 19 years old and I have a fatal attraction to someone who works in the same building as me. To me he is like my soul-mate because we understand each ...

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Boyfriend afraid to meet my father

Dear Bella, I am involved with this guy for some time now. We are deeply in love with each other but there is one thing I need him to do. The thing is my dad has a ...

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Pregnant and boyfriend don’t care

Dear Bella I am a 21 year old involved in a relationship with a man for two years now. Our relationship started of well until lately he doesn’t seem to care ...

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Teenager abused by boyfriend

Dear Bella I’m a sixteen year old with lots going on in my life. I’m involved with an 18 year old who does not treat me to good. We have been together for two ...

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Little Miss Big

Dear Bella: I am a 22-year-old young man who is deeply in love with a 16-year-old young lady. We have been together for almost three years now and haven’t been ...

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She is working voodoo on my friend

Dear Bella: I don’t know if this is the kind of story you publish because I’ve only been reading your article for a short while, but I am at the end of the rope ...

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If you do not hear you will feel

Dear Bella: I am a 16-year-old young lady and I ran away from my parent’s home for a few months now and I have also dropped out from school. Currently I’m ...

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Confessions of a “gay thug”

Dear Bella: Let’s get it out there!  I am GAY!  And no, I don’t mean bisexual but fully gay.  However, no one can tell as I don’t act feminine and don’t ...

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Relationship loses steam

Dear Bella: I am a young woman who at this point is a bit confused! I’ve been with a particular guy for the past year and I love him greatly but for the past ...

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Dear Bella: I never thought I would ever end up in a situation like this. I am now convinced it’s never good to say never because you never know when you will end ...

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Dear Bella: My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We love each other a lot. I know he loves me. We get along very well and his family and my family ...

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Nagging ex driving woman crazy

Dear Bella: I have an ex who acts completely deranged and just won’t let me leave my life. He is always in my personal business and bombarding me to give him ...

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“Hopeless” 22-year-old conte...

Dear Bella: This is hard for me to write but I do not know where to turn. I am a 22-year-old who is feeling out of it. I have been seeing a 34-year-old married man ...

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Dear Bella: When I met my now husband our relationship was like an open book; this was under his dictatorship of course. I never demanded nor expected anything of ...

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Suicidal man has major heartache

Dear Bella: My girlfriend left me because as she claims things were not working out, and now I just feel like I have nothing to live for. I committed so much to her ...

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Dear Bella: I have been seeing a guy for about three months now. He used to come to my coffee shop everyday and somehow he swept me away. Right away I knew that he ...

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My best friend is getting too close

Dear Bella: I think my best friend is falling for me. I believe she is getting too close to comfort and I am worried this can jeopardize a good friendship based on ...

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Dear Bella: I don’t know what to do. I met this really nice guy and he is married, but the thing is he doesn’t have a relationship with his wife at all. They ...

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Ex lover wants to reignite an old flame

Dear Bella: My boyfriend of 3 years who broke up with me wants to get back together. We were really going down a bad road in our relationship and he had major issues ...

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21-year-old anxious for baby

Dear Bella: I am 21. I feel I am ready to have a child as it is my intention to further my education next year September and acquire my Bachelors degree in Jamaica. ...

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Caught up in a family conflict

Dear Bella: I am between a rock and a hard place and don’t know what to do. First of all you have been doing a good job giving advice and opinion; keep up the good ...

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19-year-old mother hurting

Dear Bella: I feel that my relationship is going down the drain. My man is 24 and I’m 19, and we have one child. I’m trying to look for job to support myself and ...

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She says he’s just a friend

Dear Bella: I am in this relationship for the past two years with this young lady and we have had a few issues of our own, mostly because she constantly thinks of ...

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Dear Bella: I am a married young lady going through some things in my relationship I just can’t understand. At first when my husband and I just got married he ...

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Dear Bella: My friend is married with this young lady, but since they got married this lady is treating him like he is nobody. He would work and she would be the one ...

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Anxiously seeking companionship

Dear Bella: I am a 26-year-old young woman who is scared of giving my heart to a man. I date men, I get to love them, but whenever the feelings are getting too deep ...

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Anxiously seeking companionship

Dear Bella: I am a 26-year-old young woman who is scared of giving my heart to a man. I date men, I get to love them, but whenever the feelings are getting too deep ...

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Insecurities bring lack of trust

Dear Bella: I need some advice and I hope u can help. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for the past year and I don’t believe he trusts me. He ...

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Dear Bella: I’m in a complicated situation where I’m in love with two guys. One is my boyfriend who is almost twice my age and my high school sweetheart who is ...

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He refuses to pay the bills

Dear Bella: I’m in my 20’s and currently living with my boyfriend for the past year-and-a-half. We have been together for four years. I am beginning to get ...

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Dear Bella: Your readers were quite rude in my last letter (See ‘Looking for Love in the wrong place?’ published on June 25 in Column section) where I was asking ...

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Dear Bella: I have a child with my boyfriend whom I have been with for seven years. During this time, I have been hoping that he would do the right thing and marry ...

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My boyfriend eats like a “pig”

Dear Bella: I have a serious problem with my new boyfriend. He is wonderful and the whole nine yards but he eats like a pig whenever we go out. Obviously, it is a ...

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Boyfriend number one or number two?

Dear Bella: I love reading your column and your advice always seem helpful, so I’m hoping you will be able to help me out. I’m a young lady in her 20′s and I ...

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My husband might not be the father

Dear Bella: My husband and I have three beautiful children together. Two are in high school, while the the youngest is in primary school. We have a happy home, not ...

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Ready for war

Dear Bella: I am at my wit’s end so I’m writing to you to advise me how to end this situation I am in without any violence. I have been with my ...

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Follow your heart

Dear Bella: I am currently in a long distance relationship with my best friend whom I have known for seven years. He is a wonderful person however when we decided ...

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I’m in an abusive relationship

Dear Bella: I want to leave my boyfriend but I don’t know how. I depend on him for everything; he works hard and provides for me and our daughter. He is also a ...

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My boyfriend is broke

Dear Bella: I am 19 and my current boyfriend is 20. I really like him, he is good at making me laugh, and I know that he can’t live without me. He gives me all ...

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I have a crush on a teacher

Dear Bella: I’m a young lady attending high school at one of the top schools in town. I have a boyfriend, but he’s a bit too immature for me sometimes. There is ...

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Does size matter?

Dear Bella: This is a very awkward thing to talk about! I would say that I am a reasonably sexually experienced man, having had several girlfriends in the past. I ...

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Looking for love in the wrong place?

Dear Bella: I live in Antigua I got to know about this Dominican girl when she came to Antigua to visit. At that the time she was in Antigua she was shown around by ...

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Caught up between a bad break up

Dear Bella: I’m caught in between my male friends and one of those friends’ ex-girlfriend. Recently my friend broke up with his girl for some dumb ...

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He only wants sex

Dear Bella: I need some advice about a situation I am in. Currently I am a working woman and because of my job I don’t have much time for relationships. ...

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My girlfriend is getting fat

Dear Bella: I like slim girls. I like girls who keep their summer bodies all year long and look like runway models all the time. I’m a fly dude, and big girls ...

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Young woman has manic-like symptoms

Dear Bella: I find myself being very depressed lately, a lot more than the usual. I used to feel that way when I was a teenager; however I find this depression has ...

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I’m 23 years and still wetting the...

Dear Bella: I am 23 and still wetting bed. I met this girl who I am falling in love with. She has suggested sleeping over at my house several times but I ignore her. ...

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Dear Bella: I have been seeing this wonderful guy for quite some time now and I love him more than words can explain. He treats me right; he loves me ...

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My ideal guy is not expressive enough

Dear Bella: I am dating this guy after coming from a bad relationship and I think I am way in over my head. I think I expect too much from him because I feel the ...

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I’m in a relationship, yet I can&#...

Dear Bella: I need some advice, because I can’t decide what to do. I am a young woman and I’m in a relationship with a loving guy. The problem is that I ...

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Dear Bella: I am a young woman, who is in need of some advice.  I have been married for a few years and my husband has started to cheat on me.  Maybe I did ...

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Bullies won’t stop harassing me

Dear Bella: I’m a male teen in high school and I’m constantly being picked on by some other guys my age. It’s about three of them, and they keep bullying, ...

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I am scared of stalker

Dear Bella: I am having a big problem with this man who is bothering me and won’t leave me alone. I can really say he is a stalker. I feel like when I leave my ...

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How can I compete?

Dear Bella: I am in a relationship with a wonderful man. He is ambitious, hard-working and takes good care of me. He also knows how to ‘put it down!’ You ...

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My boss is hitting on me

Dear Bella: I’m a young man who works at an office with a prominent insurance company. I just recently got married and I have a child on the way. Bella, the ...

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My back-biting “friends”

Dear Bella: I feel like everyone has deserted me. I have no true friends, and those who I thought were my good friends only spread rumours about me and egg on people ...

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The baby surprise

Dear Bella: I am in a very deep situation. A girl I had sexual relations with two years ago met me recently with a baby girl, about two years old, telling me the ...

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Stressed over my army husband

Dear Bella: My husband is in the US Army and it is stifling out relationship. He is constantly on my mind and we hardly get to see each other. Last year he spent a ...

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My life sucks

Dear Bella: I am a married man for eight years with a wonderful wife. She has been nice to me in many ways but the one thing I need she cannot give it to me and it ...

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Dear Bella: I have been with my boyfriend for two years and I think he is totally incapable of listening to me. No matter how I try to get through to him, to resolve ...

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Dear Bella: I am a 17-year-old girl in 5th form about to sit my  Caribbean Secondary Education Certificate (CSEC) exams this month. I am 22 weeks pregnant for this ...

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