Go top-up your girl phone with your cheap self!
- Friday, June 11th, 2010 at 3:20 PM
Sometimes I wonder why women keep boyfriends who cannot take care of them.
My philosophy is, if your man cannot afford to give you a $5 top-up now and then, he deserves the boot. Some men are just plain worthless. All they want is sex, sex, sex, attention and commitment from their women but they do not want to treat her right. Instead, he spends his money on other women or spends money on men!
There are many independent women out there who still need help now and again. They won’t ask because they fear that their men will see them different, plus many of them weren’t brought up to depend on men.
But the sad thing is that some men take advantage of this. Because their women are deemed independent, they do not treat her right. They do not ask how she manages on a daily or monthly basis. At least his concern would make her feel better.
Guys, not because your woman is not complaining does not mean she is happy. You need to find out how she is getting by or if she is ok. Mind you, moderation is required because you do not want to spoil her either. But she deserves your support emotionally and monetarily.
It is very interesting that us men pamper the women who have money or who are materialistic, but we leave the humble ones to fetch for themselves. It is just not right.
You do not want her to look at another man but you do not want to give her what she wants. Does that make sense? We have some jealous men around, who requires that a woman explain her every move, but when time comes to let the greens loose he is unable to do it, or he is broke – always broke – yet he finds time to drink out with his friends. “Batty-manism” at its best!
Please guys, no one is telling you that you have to be rich or have plenty money to take care of a woman (though some women are indeed high-maintenance). However, you must be willing to help your woman up, not down. Take care of her. Even if you cannot give her all she needs or money, she will be contented at the fact that her man wants better for her and he is in fact working hard to make things better “for us”.
Sometimes it is the small things that matter, and men are always focusing on the big things.
So lighten up and go top-up your woman’s phone. She needs to call her ex for a booty call.
See ya next week.
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earl u need to take mr nice guy advise cause u soon going lose your woman
Old things are past away – women are more powerful now so forget about those past history, its equal right you want and thats what you get
You women cry out for equal rights and now u get it, u want to be supported to show u r loved. I think the guys feel the same way also in light of equal rights. LOL we want our phone top up also and “if your WOMAN cannot afford to give you a $5 top-up now and then, SHE deserves the boot.” This is the most stupid, sicking and onesided gay-ish article i ever read. Why not say that we all should look after and care about each others welfare in the interest of a quality relationship. My biggest turn off is just meeting a girl and her first request is a top up lol lol i only top up friends who always call me ! (since top up is an issue here)
non sense, if woman cant top up her phone da aint my fault, once she eat, n she safe i ain toppin up her phone so she could make a call to her ex for a booty call n let da ex top her up
You are a sexist pig. You need to wisen up. Its because of men like you, who take advantage, independent women are born. If you go back in history, there were women who did not work, the man was suppose to bring in bacon, but he didn't. Instead he went to the rum shop, or he just did not help to take care of his family. The woman then had to use the skills that she had to make money to take care of her and her children. So pleaseeee, its because of people like you, women have moved to independence.
I find that this comment is completely distasteful. As a woman (an “independent woman”) it sickens me to know that not only would a woman think this way, but would have the gall to display it to the world.
I believe you are confused. I am sorry that you are exploiting this poor guy. Why does he have to give you his paycheck? Why does he have to better YOUR life?
I notice that you speak about the man in your life making YOU happy? But should that be at the cost of his happiness?
Do you believe that the sun and moon rise and set on you?? I think you have an overinflated ego and hope that either: a) you wake up and start treating your man right; or b) someone treats you that way and takes advantage of your feelings.
At the end of the day, it seems like you are just a glorified prostitute…NOT a Queen. Maybe it's time to get real and stop being selfish!
I LOVE THIS ARTICLE BUT IT DO HAVE SOME DUTTY MAN OUT THERE AND YA'LL KNOW IT.
As for me, I take relationships very seriously. I have a guy that's head over heals in love with me right now. I am not in love with him but i care about him. BUT, I am not going to lay around and be treated less than a Queen. I am woman and i deserve the best, not half the best, because if i were to allow him to make love to me, i woldn't be giving him half my love, he will be getting all my love. So ladies, believe me when i say, if he want's to be around me 24/7 and really wants to be with me, he needs to give me his all. Right now, he gives me his entire pay-check, every dime. You may say that's unfair, but his paycheck is merely enough to make me happy. He knows what he needs to do if he wants all of me. Money cannot satisfy me, you need to come and you need to come good. I deserve the best. A top-up? What the hell is that. You women pull down your draws for shit. If you want to be happy, you have to stop letting these men crawl ontop of you for shit. What about buying a home or piece of land, or paying for your education. How about topping up those needed things. A top-up is for kids. Come better than that. I am about trying to better my life, not living for no top-up. My man got to come good, if he wants me.
bet if u asked ya woman to tap up ya phone cuz she got it she would have well a woman like me it should be the same way with a man. it should be fifty/fifty yes but suppose we women home cookin til ya'll come or want to surprise you by making one phone call and our phone brokes you neva kno
This is rediculous!! In this day and age when woman are making more money than a man (on average – check the rides they drive and the way they dress) man should still be taking care of them? Gone are the days when a woman stayed at home while a man went out to work. Back then it was even ok to give the woman the whole pay check; the home would be run properly. No man should be obligated to support no woman financially just because they are “together” (not even married). Having sex with a man and expecting him to pay in some way is still PROSTITUTION. Having sex carries mutural benefits, so if the woman should be rewarded so should be the man. Lots of whores out there walking around looking cute.
I sooo agree, I too am independent but sometimes I find myself thinking….ok, not because I don't ask means u can't offer….smh
from she cant tap up her own self … meen need she … she better off marry the man who own the phone comapany … why is it always man have to do something for the woman. It should be 50/50. wha happen woman does make less money than man?
I fully agreee with mister nice guy…I undestand how it is with the whole man dont wanna tap up them own woman fone…but if them see yo talkin to other man them does want you to chat to them … as always but yo a give yo man bun…
Is nice guy really a man?
you guys ease up on “mr. nice guy” …he is making a very valid point… not only is he speaking of tapping up her phone he is painly saying ” treat her right and with respect”..he is saying show you're interested in her not only at night (to get your groove on/up) but by doing such things that he mentioned…..i agree with him…i once asked a guy to tap up my tele…he told me “so you can call other men” ,,,i smile because i am very self supporting/and he knows this (thank god) but that was a test for him and he failed….the door swings both ways…a man must pamper his lady now and then and a lady must pamper her man…..nothing is wrong with what mr. nice guy is saying…..stop being narrow minded and learn a thing or two…..thanks mr nice guy for speaking out….
Don't be simple…that is not what that article was about….but am sorry. I know you (Bull… & K.P.) can't help yourself…you are simple.
That article was about supporting your woman, in whichever way and however you can, within your means. It is about showing her that you care about her and what she may be feeling…it is not about money..that was a metaphor, simile, allegory (look it up).
This article was meant exactly for you!
Wow, Mr Nice Guy must be sick today with this article. I must say that I am blown away today! Really Interesting. Topping up a woman phone is not all it takes to keep/make a woman happy and, yes it's the small things that matters such as treating her as equal etc and etc. Money don't buy happiness…well for only for some.
Well husbands complain when they have to furnish the house wid food……alyo hear that?
Mr. Nice Guy..This was a very interesting read. YOu hit the nail right on the head. YOu are 100 % correct. SOme men are inconsiderate. When u have a humble modest woman you have to cherish her and lift her up. leave the high maintainance ones alone if you cant give them a hair do.. Guys one hand cannot clap. This goes for you ladies too, we have to help and lift up our men.
This is true. My husband don't even give me money to buy toilet paper, but he eats, shit, sleep and whatever else. It is sad how men expects women to be good to them. His money is his and my money belongs to me, he and our children. What a life.
so a man's role in a relationship to make a woman happy is to spend money on her or top upu her phone?
BULL S…
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