My boyfriend’s penis is ‘killing’ me
- Tuesday, July 26th, 2011 at 11:53 AM
I have been dating this guy for six months. Things have been OK. We went on a trip and had a blast.
I enjoy being with him but here comes the part that is ‘killing’ me. He is bad in bed. He doesn’t know how to turn me on and I know is not his fault because his penis is small. To tell the truth it is about 4 inches erect.
I know is not his fault at all but I have been feeling horny and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to cheat and I haven’t done anything but it is ‘killing’ me.
I want to have a fling somewhere else, just sex, but if I do, I won’t be able to live with the idea.
What should I do?
Anonymous
Dear Anonymous,
You have raised the age old issue of whether size matters. This is a very touchy issue with men since some men (not all) gauge the size of their ‘manhood’ through the size of their penis.
You got to seriously look into this issue and weigh your options. If you think a small size penis is really not your thing, then move on because eventually someone will get hurt.
On the other hand there are options to explore. There are many aspects to sexual satisfaction and a visit to a sex therapist could just be the thing for you. A therapist could expose to you different ways you can attain sexual satisfaction with your boyfriend and you could choose the best one for you.
If you don’t want to cheat then go start exploring with your boyfriend and try different avenues.
Good luck
Bella
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Lmfaooooo!!! i could tell yah….. this is embrassing!! seriously….. everybody didnt have to kno how small his penis is….. that should have bin between u n him….. it has tablets he can take to enlarge his penis if its satifying u enuff!!
pardner working with a vienna sausage instead of hot dog sausage
real i aint reach 15 yet an i pass 4inches lol boi parna goin geh hurt if he find out this imagine he could be readin this an say honey come look at this ah dude tool is to small for his woman….lol an he dont know its on him!!!!!!!woman i would of tell him befo u put this in public…..because if it was me ya woulda call police befo i find that u post this on bvi news…
hahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you need to know that the frustration will not go away .So if it is a life long partner you want you will have to decide to take the 4 inches or leave it now. Dont prolong the situation.Remember your happiness is what counts. Follow your mind and not your heart.
this whole article and the resulting posts are just so out of order – maybe you guys can use rooster size to decide who to vote for in the election-pure stupidness.
you have a table with names and sizes to guide would be voters?
You don’t need a big unit to be satisfied; what you need is good technique and an open mind. For one thing, a woman’s G-spot is only a couple of inches inside the vagina. More specifically, you can find the female G spot location halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the front of the cervix, along the course of the urethra and the bladder where it connects with the urethra. That being said, if your man can use his penis to stimulate that spot, it will help you achieve a much more intense orgasm than any big unit can (matter of fact he will make you ejaculate/squirt). Secondly, if the man can use is mouth to stimulate your clit while using his finger to stimulate your G Spot…you will forget about the size of his unit and scream your head off!
Trust me……….LOVE SEX!
great comment….i second it
Sorry I meant to post my comment further down in response to the person who questioned the appropriateness of the article…love your post
real talk love sex
get a dildo, they have them in all sizes.
when he done she could finish off. Or tell him to go down town and finish his work
how much inches of pipe, how much inches of pipe you want.
Enough to fill out her sewers, it look like. The majority of woman I know/met through my lifetime aint had no problem with 5 inches as long as you know what to do with it.
Well, it aint like big man going to read this cuz it aint he put it in, but my advice to he and ANY other dude out there in this problem, forget your wood and use your tongue.
It aint got NO self respecting woman who would tell you that them aint appreciate if not covet a damn good licking. You can get that down pact and it would more than make up for what you lacking.
lol. Do the licking for what you lacking.
Boy I here killing myself now. I gone off this thing.
Girl, there is so many things that you can do to help that situation. Like getting him a pump that will help enlarge it and getting rings that will enhance what he has so that you will have some sort of pleasure.
Either he or she has a big stomach.
Are you people serious? How is this appropriate for a NEWS PAPER? IS THIS A PG 13 NEWS PAPER? PARENTAL GUIDANCE RECOMMENDED? I AM DUMBFOUNDED THAT YOU WOULD PRINT SUCH A THING. SHOULD I NOW BE SAYING TO MY DAUGHTER, THAT SHE CANNOT GO ON BVI NEWS ON LINE BECAUSE i DONT KNOW IF WHAT’S ON THERE TODAY IS APPROPRIATE FOR YOU? COME ON PEOPLE!
YAWN! SCRAM SMH
So why are u reading BELLA if you think that it is not appropriate. Do you think that people want to read about politics and crime all day no not me. I need something to laugh about. learn to filter what your child watches and reads. That is all.
That’s the thing with the islands..people have 10 children and act like them still virgins. Did you forget that God created sex in all it’s pleasures? Let’s learn to communicate about our desires and our experiences will be all the better.
GROW UP Mammy…
anything is better than nothing – lol
Tell her check me!
Leave ur digits/contact info nah….i looking plenty pipe…like tola outta stock..
Some have big and don’t know how to use it. It depends on how they use it.
Girl I know what you mean…most women will agree that 4 inches is just not enough. you should consider getting some Extenze or something to help him. Otherwise you will become frustated to the point where you won’t want sex at all, at least with him.
This can’t be real.
I can so relate to this post, i feel sorry for you my friend as i went thru something similar to this i was having a relationship with an old boyfriend who i loved very much at first the sex was great he did all he can to satisfy me but then after a few times i realise he is not for me if i cannot have pleasurable sex then what is the point being in a realtionship especially since the man only care about his self. Once he is satisfy he does not care. I still love him to death but he just aint the one
Well look joke. Before you go an talk to your man, you put it out in public. Work with what you have, teach him ways to satisfy you other than his tool. 4inches can go a long way unless your flag out and he cant not rubb you the way you want (just saying).
Some men are unteachable, period. They simply do not want to try out new things, especially dem from JA. They just figure when dem buss off, dats it. I know what I’m saying because I have been there and done dat. Just boooorrrrinnng
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