My girlfriend stole my semen
- Tuesday, June 14th, 2011 at 1:08 PM
I have a girlfriend for about a year now and love her very much, too much. We had many sexual encounters and we practice safe sex.
I’m 19 and have a good job but don’t want any children right now in my life as I may plan to further my education. However my girlfriend has always been begging for a baby, telling me that I won’t even have to look after him it would be just for her (I would always want to be part of my kids life, just don’t want any right now).
Thing is, I recently discovered that my girl was pregnant for about a month and a half now. Out of a fit, she admitted to me that she plan not to tell me because of my stance and that she managed to steal my semen without my knowledge.
She told me that she is having our baby and their is nothing I can do about it.
I just don’t want children right now and if I do I would want to be part of it’s life. what can I do to stop a girl that won’t listen.
Disappointed.
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Dear Disappointed,
You have found yourself in quite an unfortunate situation and I understand your disappointment.
Your girlfriend clearly someone who does not respect your wishes and should not be trusted. Her action to get a child seems somewhat desperate, but I will reserve any further comments on her. However, the fact that she is pregnant and claims the child is yours is something you cannot get around, it is now your reality.
Firstly, you need to sit with her and a professional to identify some of the underlying issues in the relationship in order to determine if you need to continue being with her.
Think very carefully about a future with her, because if she could steal your semen, who knows what other acts she may commit while with you. I would tread very cautiously with this girl.
I also strongly recommend a paternity test as soon as this child is born. If the child is not yours, it would be obvious that she cheated. If the child is yours then you would have to do the right thing and actively participate in all areas of the child’s life.
Note, however, that actively being in a child’s life as a father does not mean he and the mother must be in an intimate relationship.
The ideal situation for raising children is to have both parents in a loving/caring relationship cohabiting the space where the family lives. Life, however, doesn’t always allow for idealisms to become reality, still we have to make the best of the circumstances.
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She got to GOOOO!!! Just selfish>>>
There was a case in the News like this a couple years back. I think it happened in Virginia. The guy did not want kids, his girl friend did. She told him all the same things, but the guy did not buy it. One night after sex the girl friend removed the condom from the garbage and inseminated herself. It happened so that they broke up. A few years later the guy found himself in child support court; his ex girl friend admitted to all that she did, but sadly the guy ended having to pay.
listen guys, here is a true story. Back in the day when young women wanted to have babies for famous athletes (in the USA) they would take the discarded condom used a turkey baster and inject the semen in order to impregnate themsleves. Nine months later a baby is born and the woman takes the guy to court for child support, of course the guy claims that the child is not his, but a DNA test said the child is.
There are manipulative, and devious women out there who would stoop to such means. Be vigilant.
As for stealing semen…this bold inconsiderate young woman obviously have some psychological issues that needs to be dealt with immediately. To all the young men and women out there stop having sex while dating save it for marriage. The marriage bed in undefiled.
I know many persons are gonna get mad with me, but thats cool… I would have gotten those pills crush them and place in her juice. I wasn’t taking that chance by waiting those long long nine months to find out. Get the pills, crush them and place in her drink. You done do it and there is nothing “She can do about it!” If thats not the case, I agree that you get a Legal advicer. Remember she said she doesn’t need your help… thats all a bold face lie… I’m only 21 and I really don’t understand what the rush with all we young people today and getting kids. Most of my friends, both male and female want kids NOW… wow… anyways Best of Luck to you
I use to deal with a guy who will take the used condoms when he going home. in these times you really have to be careful, and I may ask what kind of parent would this young lady be towards the upbringing of the child and she thieving sperm.
how the hell she geh stole ur semen…boss man tha could never happen…she sleep with another man to geh the semen
@huh???, IT COULD HAPPEN. WAKE UP.
Maybe you should report it to the police and have her arrested for theft. lol
@Imagine that………….LMAO LMAO FUNNY AS HELL. RIGHT RIGHT CALL POLICE BOY SHE OUT OF ORDER.
Pyure rotten lie she a tell. Cha. Dash wey she…
Dat girl watch to much soaps
No Mr.! She meant that she had sex with another man to get his sperm. Don’t act like no fool boss. If that was me I wasn’t buying that cock and bull story until pickney born and a paternity test was done.
hmmm……….and she goin say there is nothing u can do about it?….lawd i woulda kill she….experience teaches wisdom…………i hope u learnt ur lesson and choose wisely next time when seekin anotha woman…cause these days woman out for man…trust
Boss man another man stroke that so is not yours. End of story. If this happen somewhere in the states i woulda maybe believe what she is saying but it wasn’t so is not urs…….
@M.J, you all ll so ignorant, you all think only things happening in the states alone. wake up tola is full of all kinds of people now and they bringing their bad habits here. humans will be humans no matter where they come from. pure ignorance talking about in the states, pleaseeeeeee.
boy ur 19. u need to do research cus, it very hard for a woman to get pregnant so!!!
It is really sad that not one person has mentioned the plight of an inncocent child that will be brought into this world, you are all concerned only about the dna test.
This is why Tortola has the low moral standards and high crime rate it sees now.
She took the condom and used it on herself. Unless you been pulling out and jizzing on the sofa, bedspread, nightstand, lampshade, curtains, ceiling fan, fishtank like a 90rnstar, chances are the only place left for your semen to be collected in, is a condom.
I admire your resolve (Unless you done hit her the clout I think she need and more) in this whole matter. If faced with a dilemma like this, I don’t think I could have been calm or rational towards her, especially with the “Nothing I can do about it” part. Because now you are honor BOUND To not only raise this child, but to finance it as well. Something you say you aint in the position to do and took the necessary precaution to NOT put yourself in said situation.
There should be some kinda law against this type of treachery, man. Short of “Not claiming the child” as people say, there should be SOMETHING to exonerate this man of this burden…and YES I calling the child a burden cuz it aint a blessing or a blessing in disguise…for all we know big man want to go to college….how he going to run that now? Not that it aint doable..but this is a monkey wrench.
…..this whole thing got me hot no arse, boy. That is why I does rinse my condom them in the facebasin before I throw it away. Stay strong, my brother
@Mick Mars, tie those condoms in a knot in front of her too.
@Mick Mars, lmao rinse condom. Now this is a first. Never heard that shit before. Empty it in the toilet bowl.
This is sad and this is a wake up call, for you and others like you. If its yours you should still leave her as she is a deceitful person who has been dishonest in a very permanent way. When one person is insisting on having a child and the other one doesn’t want it GO YOUR SEPARATE WAYS! This unfortunately happens all the time. Ladies and gents take care of your own contraception and don’t trust your partner to do so.
so she take a used condom and inseminate she self? Really? Dis is a real Jerry Springer story DNA will answer the question.
This is a very sad predicament you have found yourself in. As a woman I am aghast at her actions. How unfortunate that this young girl decided on her own to bind your life and finances down to a child you were not ready for. You are but a young man with a life ahead of you. She is as evil as it gets. A manipulative b@@#h! If you can get her to admit on tape, in front of a witness and/or in writing that she knowingly stole from you to create a child without your permission or desire, and that she holds no responsibility on you to do so I would get that from her and see a lawyer ASAP. Undoubtedly you are a stand up guy as you have stated and will do what you have to do and provide financially for the child and perhaps emotionally. But the smartest thing you can do is minimize any dealings you have to have with this sorceress and safeguard your financial earnings for the next 18 years. She is in no way to be trusted. If she has done this sick perverted act to get what she wants imagine what she has the ability to do throughout your life to hurt you and your loved ones even more.
It’s too bad you couldn’t have seen into her a long time ago. At 19 I’d be very concerned about a girlfriend wanting desperately to have a child. I wouldn’t trust and I would probably have ended the relationship. I do agree with others that stealing your sperm and successfully impregnating herself seems a physically difficult task. If she stole a used condom or used oral sex to capture your sperm I doubt it would survive well enough. Perhaps she simply put a hole in your condoms. Either way I’d demand a DNA test immediately at birth. DO NOT put your name as the father until you are confimed the birth father. A lying, evil, she-devil like she has probably cheated on you also.
it could an do happen i think when the child is born u should do a dna or u will be paying for another man child an i kno u wont be happy .
She slept wid other guy and so she making a fake story “SHe stole ur sperm”
Thts impossible…
She fooling u….
leave her asap
that is not impossible, she could have removed the condom and said she was going to dispose of it and hide it away instead. i have some crazy people out there so dont say its impossible.
@Sunny,
The guy clearly told that he always practices ‘SAFE SEX’ ….
U dont know wat is safe sex??????
@crikcet crazy, Sunny said that she could have said that she was going to dispose it (meaning after having sex) and do something with the semen that was it that could cause her to get pregnant.
@learn to read ,
U cant take out semen from condom and get pregnant …
@crikcet crazy, You can. Y need to find out how long semen can stay alive after discharge.
she want a child he ain want done
she get pregnant for another man
if you use a condom y worry
there is such a thing as DNA
plus i dont think da gurl steal your sper you just being arogant
strupses
tsk tsk tsk… probably she got pregant by someone else and talking s**t about stealing your semen..some woman just sickening…always trying to have pickney for man to keep the man.. news flash!!! pickney or no pickney the man would leave…stupes///
i wah he tell how she steal the sperm
da gurl gehing dis child for anohter man simple
So tell me how did she get that done? As far as I know the spermicide inside of the condom, should terminate the sperm. Or did she put a hole in a condom without his knowledge? I mean that young lady is dangeroulsy desperate. I hope she is responsible enough to take care of a baby as its no easy task these days especially with this kind of economy. Brother if what you are saying is true make sure that a DNA test is done when that baby is born. It shows you that is she quite dishonest in her dealings.
@RANDI,
what is meaning of RANDI ?
@crikcet crazy, Why do you want to know? There is no meaning as far as I know. Its just a name. Like Sasha. David or John!!!!
da child ain yours its for another man (how she go breed if you practice safe sex and how the hell does one steal semen come on strupes
da gurl simply breed for anothe man
Urgent get legal advice – I had a similar thing happened to me – you WILL be paying money for the child for the next 18 years
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